People live three periods of time: past, present and future ,and they have four images of self, other people, different living things, longevity；the tea is also divided into different levels. Ordinary people does not suffer a lot of red tape to drink tea. However, in the development of three major factions of Confucianism, Buddhism and Taoism, tea culture has deduced rich meaning which is beyond our imagination. When I first arrived in Dehe，as if in a trance, it seemed that I had broken into a fairyland. Having been here for a long time, I gradually realized the kindly feelings of the owner. For here unexpectedly Confucianism, together with Buddhism and Taoism, could be blended perfectly into one, and behaved very harmoniously, naturally. In the real world, it is difficult for the ordinary people to avoid worrying about personal gains and losses, but in such atmosphere, personal gloominess would be left behind with the lapse of time. You would open your heart slowly，and the road of life might open up suddenly before you. It turned out that between gain and loss, kind manners were most precious.